Hal in Seattle writes:

Well, this is a real no-brainer, isn't it?

Firstly Fed Up, you can consider yourself fortunate that at the age of 32 
you're still able to attract attention from younger men. Now the obvious 
solution to your problem is to STOP WEARING BRAS AND PANTIES TO WORK.

However, your letter indicates a larger problem than the "harassment" you 
claim to have been subject to, which is your inability to get along with the 
men you work with. While you're discarding your underwear you might also want 
to drop the attitude as well. Until you learn that, you're not likely to 
receive any more "respect."